We got a question from one of our readers, Jenny who asked us: “One of your recent guest bulges is a guy that said he liked to wear panties, I was wondering how he got in to them and if he had any advice for me. I’m looking to get my boyfriend into wearing them and I wanted some advice on how I might go about it.”
Well, Jenny – we went right to the source of your speculation and asked MaleTails, who’s post you were referring to if he had any advice. Here’s what he had to say to you about this.
“My advice – well first:
The blog posts that are coming out this week go into very specific detail as to how I became involved with thong panties. You’ll read it was a very specific set of circumstances – but I also know that I had the passion for them all along, and was just the circumstances that gave me the chance to discover my love of panties!
As for involving a partner in any ‘kinky’ activity – it depends greatly on your relationship. Have you done things like this before? Explored other unique areas? How open are you with exploration?
If you are a very open couple, i’m sure just a blunt yet sexy introduction to this is hardly out of line! And if he’s comfortable with you and willing to be daring, he’ll get in those panties without hesitation.
On the other hand – if you both are a bit shy and this is a very new concept for him – I’d start easy – like mentioning the idea in a joking fashion to see how he reacts? Perhaps he’ll playfully joke back and you can find yourself building to a sexy exchange. Be playful and ALWAYS be reassuring and confident. Most times, it is insecurities that hold us back from trying something new, so be sure and coach him along in a way that he’ll respond best to!
And my last trick if all else fails – rent the terrible high school movie “John Tucker Must Die” – and watch to the sexy scene when the ‘evil’ high school girl forces the VERY sexy male lead into a pair of thong panties as a prank. This could work as either inspiration – or watch it with him and see if he’ll go for the dare!!!
Hope I helped and feel free to keep asking me questions! Best of luck and when you do get him in panties – be sure and send us a picture of your victory!!!”
My own advice would be to be honest with him, tell him it’s something that you want to try and ask him if there’s anything he’d like to try. Maybe a bit of bartering will get you both excited about something you want! Best of luck Jenny – and let us know how it all turns out! If you’ve got any other questions – let us know!